Do you have a lot of drama in your life? Does it seem to follow you around? Do people seem to be pissed off at you in every forum in which you participate? Are your roommates always seeming to mess with you? Do your friends back stab you all the time? Do find that every relationship you have ends relatively quickly and badly? Do you have a hard time keeping any job you get?
I'm going to suggest something pretty radical and it will probably either piss you off, or you will think this isn't about you.
It is about you.
Here's the radical suggestion: the problem is probably you, not the people around you or the rest of the world. Take a look at what you are doing. I bet you are doing something to create the chaos that surrounds your life.