When I am 80, I want to be my grandfather. I want to have lived a long full life. Done interesting, although maybe not earth-shattering things. I want to have been with the same person for decades. That doesn't necessarily mean marriage, although that would be nice. And I want family that belongs to me. Generations of them. That doesn't necessarily mean they are my own, although that would be nice. But they could be nieces nephews adopted or whatever. But where I've got a connection with them. I want to be able to tell them stories.
That's what I want.