Few years ago a friend of mine that I had once asked out was over at my place. (The asking out and subsequent non-date is a whole nother story.) My place was clean, but I had a twin bed -- a relic of when we packed 4 people into a two bedroom duplex so we each would only pay about $150/month in rent. She took one look at it and told me, "Phil honey, no self-respecting woman is ever going to get in that bed!" That's when I got my current double bed.