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2011 Goals

Only occasionally will I make New Year’s goals. A new year is kind of an arbitrary time to do this, but I haven’t been doing the things I need to do to get the things I want. I’ve been mentally distracted by taking care of family and estates. But while I accept that such things are understandable reasons for not achieving what I want, I’m not going to be visited by the success fairy. So this is as good a time as any to make some commitments to change.

My philosophy on goals is that they are a road map rather than a straight-jacket. I don’t consider it failure if I don’t achieve what I want. The idea is that I have something to focus on when I make a choice. Should I do A or B? Which one is on my goals? It’s also useful in holding myself accountable in the steps taken along the way. These can also be changed if I change my priorities. But for now, this is what I want.

Family

My goals this year are to wrap up the estates of my grandparents and my mother. Both should be getting close and are mostly not in my control. I do want to really push to get items related to these done when they fall into my hands. I commit to writing about what I have to do and what I’ve done weekly.

It’s not exactly a goal for the year, but I also commit to saying no to new big family commitments for 2011. I don’t know what will come up, so I can’t say this absolutely. But I do need to step back and let Joe and Elaine take the lead with things unless there’s no way around it. This does not mean I do nothing. I will not take the day to day lead shepherding my step-father through his cancer treatment choices, for instance. If I do not, I will probably need to be committed. I had some moments last year where I felt as close to a breakdown as I ever have.

Health

I want to be in better shape. I weighed in at 186 pounds a couple of days ago. I would like to be at 175 pounds and toned by the end of the year. I also would like to be able to dance for an hour straight. I commit to working out at the gym twice a week through March, and three times a week until the end of the year or I achieve both results. I have a membership at 24 Hour Fitness. If anyone else has a membership there and would like to be workout buddies, please comment.

I generally don’t keep snack foods in the house. The idea is that if I have to cook to eat, I won’t munch. I’ve eaten out more than I’d like though. I commit to cooking meals twice per week (with leftovers to eat, ideally). If they are new recipes, I will post them here. If repeats, I’ll just Facebook that I’ve cooked. I refuse to apologize for turning Facebook into a verb.

Learning

I want to learn Swedish. I bought a Swedish course on CD. I commit to spending two hours a week working on it. If it turns out to be a bad one, I will find another method.

I also want to finish the Game Theory course I poked at last summer. I commit to spending two hours per week working on that.

Dating

I like to be spending time with someone with whom I click. Until I have a significant other, I will ask out a person at least twice a month. This will probably be the hardest of all my goals because even though I’ve done this a lot, I’ve never gotten over the initial fear of putting myself out there. I do it. But it scares me every time.

Travel

I will road trip the U.S. this year.

I will visit another country (besides Canada) this year.

Travel companions desired.

Other

I will spend 15 minutes every evening tidying up my place. People may test me on this by stopping by relatively unexpectedly. If my place is not presentable, you get the drink of your choice.

I will be productive by 9 a.m. every weekday morning.

This last one is less a goal for 2011 than a goal for January. I will get my book blog moved to Read Irresponsibly by the end of the month. I will abandon getting the site done perfectly in favor of getting it done.

crossposted from King Rat.

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webcowgirl From: webcowgirl Date: January 2nd, 2011 10:54 am (UTC) (Link)
Come see me. I'm desperate for people to travel with me. If you could come out before Easter and stay until the beginning of May, that would be ideal. I want to do a long trip during this time as I've got 4 holidays and 6 vacation days booked from work. I'm currently thinking maybe Sicily and then Riga/Latvia/Estonia. What do you think?
gkr From: gkr Date: January 2nd, 2011 06:11 pm (UTC) (Link)
Until I get the estates closed I can't commit to a specific date. However, it's looking real good for them to be finished by the end of February, and once I know that for sure, I'll be able to book tickets.
webcowgirl From: webcowgirl Date: January 2nd, 2011 11:55 pm (UTC) (Link)
Well, I am serious about my offer. I really want to travel during that period of time and because I'm close to the continent I can afford to wait to arrange things.
thugg1ns From: thugg1ns Date: January 3rd, 2011 08:31 am (UTC) (Link)
It's never easy putting yourself out there. And always kind of terrifying.
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